Originally published on Shine Cancer Support. When something terrible happens, we don’t know what to say. We spend our schooldays learning how to play the recorder, apply Pythagoras’ theorem and recite Shakespeare verbatim. We spend no time at all learning how to be human and deal with the pain that life inevitably brings. I’ve spent … More When there are no words: what to say to the newly diagnosed
“Your hair will drop out if we use this kind of chemo, but it will grow back” my consultant said, not realising the emotional impact his statement had on me. I shrunk inside and touched my head protectively as the sentence rang in my ears. Despite being told I had a life-threatening illness, the hair … More “It will grow back” and other thoughts on hair loss
I tell all my colleagues that I’ll be back soonAs I slip from the office one spring afternoonTo a wonky blue chair in a brightly lit roomWhere I’m hit by a barrage of words spelling doom The shock takes my breath in the brutal surpriseI taste salt from the tears as they stream from my … More What does cancer feel like?
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